“I cannot find my spouse” is a service problem, not a shortcut.
Courts commonly require documented search efforts and permission before publication, posting or another alternative method. The available orders may be limited when personal jurisdiction is missing.
Source record reviewed: 2026-11-03 · Page updated: 2026-11-03 · Not attorney-certified legal advice
DILIGENT SEARCH FILE
Build a verifiable record, not a conclusion.
- Last known home and mailing addresses
- Known employers, schools or professional licenses
- Contact attempts and returned mail
- Lawful searches of public records and approved locators
- Names, dates and results of people contacted
- Safety orders that limit contact or searching
- The exact alternative-service request and proposed notice
- Court order, publication or posting proof, and any required mailing
PRIMARY SOURCES
Verify with the official source
Rules, forms, fees and local procedures can change. These links are the controlling starting points; the explanations on this site are preparation guidance, not a substitute for the current source.
- California Courts — Ask to serve by publication or posting ↗Official source
- Florida Courts Help — Constructive service overview ↗Official source
- Florida Courts — Family law forms ↗Official source